Words, Communication

 

Words, Communication

Speak good words or remain silent.

Words are indeed powerful.  They can hurt or they can warm and touch hearts. We should choose our words carefully.  Words have immense power, they can make someone life a heaven or hell.  

By not using the right words at the right time, relationships get strained. Family, friends and co-workers can become disaffected. Before allowing a thought to become a word ask yourself “what is the goal of speaking these words?” 

BEFORE YOU SPEAK THINK

T = is it true?

H = is it helpful?

I = is it inspiring?

N = is it necessary?

K = is it kind? 

 

Lack of understanding, and lack of will to understand are the biggest challenges in today’s world. It boils down to lack of communication. In our modern world where most of us are time constrained, we speak before putting any thoughts in our words. We end up hurting the other person despite it not being our intention.  It is even worse when we hurt pure, innocent souls like children. Harsh words can ruin their lives, and it usually takes only a miracle for a child to meet someone later in their lives that can undo all the damage and make them believe in themselves.

 

Words can start a war, and they can bring peace. So please, next time when you speak, speak only good words, or remain silent As Prophet Muhamad PBUH said. This will help your relationship with families and friends and everyone around you and help all of us understand each other better. We should make this a beautiful world for our kids, where they don’t have to see any conflicts. ,  

Most of the time our problems are not caused by our circumstances/ condition; they are caused by our thoughts and whatever our thoughts are that’s what our circumstance/condition will be. 

 

When we speak,

a message is 7 percent verbal, 38 percent vocal (tones) and 55 percent visual (Body language) The conclusion is 93 percent of communication is “nonverbal” in nature!

Learn how to be silent — so that you’ll know how to speak”

Words Should Be Weighed, Not Counted.

Silence is the language of God. All else is poor translation (Rumi)

Life is a journey of self-discovery, and the more we learn about ourselves, the more we can grow and evolve. Self-reflection, introspection, and mindfulness can help us to better understand our own motivations, desires, and fears.